...let go
Published on September 14, 2004 By The Crusaders In Misc
There is a murky darkness all around you and you feel as though your vision was impaired...blinded. You are standing on the edge of a cliff......you don't want to move for fear of falling over the edge of the cliff top and into the nothingness below. You are holding something firmly in your grasp...but somehow it slips and topples over the edge into the gloomy depths below...you instinctively dive for it ....just catching it with your fingers.....It is really heavy.....slippery...and very hard to hold...it digs and points into your skin...drawing blood....you feel pain...but don't let go....Stubbornly you cling to it with all your being.....you can feel it cutting through to your bone....but you don't let go.....It is mine...and I will not let it fall...I will not leave here without it....I will not let go....Then you sense movement behind you and a growing light.....Your vision adjusts and you see a baby crawling toward you...toward the cliff.....the babe is glowing with life....alive with wonder...and crawls closer to the cliff bringing the light with it....No...Stop...Look out...you scream....Get away from the edge....the child is but a few steps from it's demise....to save it you must let go....but you can't .....you can't....and then the light from the child falls upon you....and onto the thing in your hand.....you scream...it is a writhing mass of blackness....of blood....bile.....and jagged bone ....it is bad....it is not yours....it is not a part of you.....you let go ....flinging it into the abyss below...and dive for the child......picking it up in your arms....you hold it close.....you hold it to your heart.......and never let go.
And as you look into the innocent eyes before you...you realize what you had let go of ...what you had thrown into the darkness....what you had held onto ....blindly...for so long.......You have let go of your Hate.

Comments
on Oct 04, 2004
I'm kinda dissapointed that no one has commented as I was trying to point out in my own words how our hate is so bad for us and what we are losing why we cling to this horrible part of us. Hate and anger takes such a draining, painful, dark, bloody energy that enslaves us ....but to let go frees us to see the good in the world...the innocence that exists in every new life. And if we...now ...let go of this dangerous, venomous trait we can set the upcoming generations on the right path by teaching and leading by example and showing them the brighter way to a future where we are not as violent and impatient and have a new meaning in our lives. And that meaning is Us. Life.
on Oct 04, 2004
Good Article Crusaders..
Hate and Anger are emotions I believe we have for an important reason. I dont think we can believe that we never hate or are angry. I think Hate is very extreme and it would take alot for me to hate anything or anyone. Anger on the other hand I feel every now and then, alot of the time it is frustration with people more than anger. I get frustrated because I know people know better in certain situations, and I get frustrated when I know that they know and they dont do. Does that make sense?
Life at the moment is really fast paced for alot of society, it's like we are enslaved by the demands placed on us. I think this has got alot to do with the hate and anger that is displayed. People dont want to take the time to listen anymore or to have patience. They are on an invisible time limit for everything. This makes us angry.
How many times do people take time out to watch the sunset, or to check out the trees? We need to slow down a little, and experience.
on Oct 04, 2004
>> I'm kinda dissapointed that no one has commented

My dear friend, we are not living in the same time zone. I'm at work and the Americans are most probably sleeping at this hour. And yes I do see your point. Preoccupation with hate is destructive to self. Long term unresolved anger can lead to hatred. I do hate certain sorts of people, but I've learnt (and also constantly try) not to get preoccupied with them or those kind of destructive thoughts. There certainly are better things to do than wasting time hating someone to bits.

on Oct 08, 2004
Phoenixboi,
You always make a lot of sense, Phoenixboi. I think anger can be an unavoidable emotion for certain circumstances...but hate is too venomous and can blind and enslave people.

Anger on the other hand I feel every now and then, alot of the time it is frustration with people more than anger. I get frustrated because I know people know better in certain situations, and I get frustrated when I know that they know and they dont do. Does that make sense?

Yes, that does make sense. I used to get frustrated...or angry a little when I was younger...but now ..it is a very rare experience for me because I have seen it as an unproductive, destructive emotion that brings nothing but grief.
I have had a situation in my life recently where someone I don't know has had a problem with my dogs barking (admittedly they do bark a bit but they are beautiful, friendly dogs and I have had no problems with other people about them as our area is full of dogs and I think most peole are quite tolerant) and instead of approaching the situation rationally this person has acted in full fury, threatening, swearing and violently attacking my gate with a stick....and all the while I kept my control and apologised for my dogs and tried to reason with this person......and because I did not act in a defensive manner and attack back as this person expected they were left with no fuel for their fire and impotent in their attack as I would not join in their battle. I will not fight ...but I will stand my ground in a respectful manner to myself and the person in question.
Unfortunately I think this person is quite a frightened individual and I can see quite plainly that the anger they were expressing was not soley over the problem they had with my dogs but it is obvious that this anger has been built up over years and is now a part of who this person is and they can not let it go. I feel sad for this person ...and until the other day I was ready to invite this person into my home when they passed next and let them meet and greet my dogs and see that they are beautiful creatures and that there is no need to be afraid....but I had another more violent run in ..and well luckily for me I guess...but my parents were round at the time and this person attacked my father with profanities for no reason other then he was there....
....sigh......I really wish everyone could be......nice....?....

Life at the moment is really fast paced for alot of society, it's like we are enslaved by the demands placed on us.

It can be hard for people as the fast pace is set by those at the forefront and others can struggle to keep up....but do they have to? Can we not have a world catered to different paces?


How many times do people take time out to watch the sunset, or to check out the trees? We need to slow down a little, and experience.


Sigh...again......life shouldn't be a race....every little part of life is worth savouring.....I haven't worn a watch since my last one broke 5 or 6 years ago and I have never felt better in my life....sure time is important in our modern society for routine and schedules...but at least I'm not constantly looking at my wrist half the time to see how long it has been since the last time I looked.
When the world can seem overwhelming I go outside feel the sun and the wind on my face .....look around me at the life blooming all around us....squish my toes in the grass.... listen to the birds happily chirping....and I sit and think and watch and listen and thank whatever or whoever for the miracle that is life.

Ravenblack,

I'm sorry Ravenblack I guess I thought after a couple of weeks or so of this having no response that it would slip into obscurity and that I wouldn't have the privilidge of hearing what others thought...If you agree ...disagree....what your thoughts are....I really appreaciate the opportunity to hear what others think as sometimes, in physical life, it seems as people don't have the time to discuss things that don't affect them first hand....

Preoccupation with hate is destructive to self. Long term unresolved anger can lead to hatred

The way I try to understand this and make my analogy is that anger is a shovel and once someone picks it up they start digging....and somtimes people realize that they are digging themselves into a pit and throw they shovel down and walk away...but sometimes people keep digging and digging and at some point they look up and realize they can't get out any more because they are too deep and they can't climb out....so ..they just keep digging and come to accept their pit as their fate.

There certainly are better things to do than wasting time hating someone to bits.

Too true. Life is too precious to torture yourself and others with such a malignant emotion.

Phoenixboi, Ravenblack.....thankyou so much for being here and taking the time to share your thoughts...I am a little down today and it ....well it just made me feel a little better to find you here. Thankyou.